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of Combined Experience Fighting for Los Angeles Families

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At ERL, we know that divorce and family law matters are overwhelming.

When you’re fighting for the things that matter most in life, you need an attorney who will:

  • Listen to your goals and fears with a non-judgmental ear

  • Provide compassionate, unwavering support during difficult times

  • Cherish and prioritize the best interests of your children

  • De-escalate tension to foster rational decision-making

  • Help bring peace to a chaotic situation

  • Work closely with you to craft a highly personalized plan to meet your unique needs

At Emily Rubenstein Law, we know that who you choose to advocate for you matters.


You need the right Los Angeles family lawyer to help you navigate difficult life transitions and move forward with hope. We focus on resolving divorces promptly, equitably, and with unrivaled personalized attention. We are your advisors, confidants, spokespeople, and representatives. We are dedicated to protecting our clients’ relationships with their children and their personal finances, setting them up for brighter futures.

We also negotiate and draft premarital agreements.

When everything feels upside down, we’ll meet you where you are so you can be set up to begin again – the way you want to.

About us

Meet Our Los Angeles Family Lawyers & Staff

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Emily Rubenstein, Esq.

Founding Attorney

Emily E. Rubenstein is passionate about fighting for the interests of families navigating life transitions. She recognizes that clients come to her during difficult times in their lives, so she focuses on treating them with compassion, strength, and emotional intelligence.

With fierce advocacy and a calming spirit, Emily negotiates and litigates family and divorce cases, whether amicable or contentious. She works with appraisers, forensic accountants, and other financial experts to identify, characterize, and protect assets and income.

Emily’s favorite part of her work is helping clients get through the divorce process and onto happier and healthier places. She also takes pride in hard-fought court victories and settling difficult cases that many thought were impossible to settle.

When not in the office, Emily, a Los Angeles native, is an avid reader, music appreciator, sports fan, and explorer of California's mountains and coast. 

  • University of California Law San Francisco, J.D., 2013

    The Ohio State University, B.A., 2009

  • State Bar of California

    Los Angeles County Bar Association

    ​​LACBA Judicial Appointments Committee (2020)

    LACBA Access to Justice Committee (2020)

    LGBTQ Lawyers Association of Los Angeles, Co-President (2016)​

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Krystal De Santiago, Esq.

Associate Attorney

Krystal De Santiago has practiced family law for her entire legal career and is a proud UCLA alumnus. She has experience settling and litigating divorce, support, child custody, and visitation disputes. She approaches every case with compassion and tenacity. 

Prior to working at ERL, she worked for a widely respected family law judge at the Pasadena Courthouse. There, she observed hundreds of family law matters, including Requests for Orders regarding support, child custody, discovery disputes, trials, and various other family law proceedings. She also conducted family law research and analyzed pleadings and motions. Additionally, Krystal worked for several years at the Los Angeles Center for Law and Justice.

When not in the office, Krystal spends time with her family (including her beloved dachshunds) and catching the latest movie.

  • Southwestern University School of Law J.D., 2020

    UCLA, B.A., 2011

  • State Bar of California

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    Brittany Aberle

    OFFICE OPERATIONS MANAGER
    & INTAKE CONCIERGE

    Brittany Aberle’s calm and caring demeanor helps the smooth transition of onboarding new clients during difficult and stressful times. When not in the office, you can find her enjoying time with friends and family, attending fitness classes, and trying the latest restaurant.

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    Ashley Patterson

    PARALEGAL

    Ashley Patterson has worked in the legal field for nearly a decade, gaining experience in trusts and estates, employment law, and family law. She is proficient in conversational French and is currently in law school, concentrating in family law. When not in the office or class, she spends time with her family and appreciates opera and fitness.

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    Jennifer Morales

    PARALEGAL

    Jennifer Morales has worked in family law for nearly a decade. She earned her bachelor's degree in legal studies from the University of La Verne and has assisted with divorces, premarital agreements, child custody, and other family law matters. When not in the office, she spends time with her family, plays the keyboard, and crafts.

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  • "She listened to what I wanted and helped me go through my divorce with dignity and in a way I felt proud of."

    I can’t say enough about how much Emily helped me through my divorce. I was married for over 25 years and was terrified about what would happen to my house, my retirement, etc. She was a calming force during this process which gave me great peace of mind. She explained to me exactly what I was entitled to and answered all my questions. She really knows the law and I felt a lot better each time I talked to her. Although her job is to get the best settlement for her clients, she listened to what I wanted and helped me go through my divorce with dignity and in a way I felt proud of. In the end I got much more than I thought I would thanks to Emily. She is tough, but she won’t make your compromise your principles to get what you want.

    – Carmen

  • "She is truly an angel sent during one of the most difficult times of my life."

    Emily is an amazing and reliable lawyer. She is empathetic, organized, caring, patient, timely, and always made sure that I understood all the logistics of my divorce. Because of Emily, I am able to make important legal decisions for my kids and was able to get money to support my kids. I can’t speak highly enough about Emily. She is truly an angel sent during one of the most difficult times of my life. You will be lucky to have her as a lawyer.

    – Janet

  • "Emily is by far the most professional and comforting lawyer I have ever met."

    I was so nervous going into working with anyone when it comes to my son. Emily is by far the most professional and comforting lawyer I have ever met. Every step of the way and the thousands of questions I had she answered within hours or even minutes. If you are looking for a compassionate very very sweet and someone with a ton of knowledge (I learned I was entitled to a lot more than I thought) Emily is for you! I look forward to working with her in the near future!

    – Emily

  • “In a time of my life when everything was topsy turvy, Emily helped me regain my confidence and proper footing."

    In a time of my life when everything was topsy turvy, Emily helped me regain my confidence and proper footing. She reassured me while assisting me through what was 100% the toughest situation I have ever encountered. After 2 years with another lawyer unsuccessfully closing my divorce, switching to Emily & her practice alleviated the tension and helped my ex-husband and I cross the finish line on terms we could both agree with. Emily's professionalism is unmatched, and the way she cares about her clients is truly admirable. I highly recommend her to anyone in CA ready to make a change.

    – Jane

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